The Love Games
This three part series is called The Love Games because a relationship with a narcissist is very much a series of mind and control games, cloaked within the name of love but serving only one purpose – to make certain his opponent loses and he does not. To a narcissist, a relationship is not a partnership but simply a game, a competition to be the best, which he must win at all costs.
Planet Ben - Book 1
Inside the World of a Narcissist
Are you tired of lies, broken promises, cheating and emotional game playing? Are you in a relationship so toxic that you're questioning your own sanity, yet can't seem to break away? Have you changed from the happy, confident woman you used to be before you met him, feeling depressed, anxious and insecure? That's my story too. That's life with a narcissist.We live in a world of narcissism but how do you know if your partner really is a narcissist? Planet Ben is a true story where the reader is taken on my own journey as I enter Ben's narcissistic world believing I have met the man of my dreams, only to find out I am caught up in a fairytale nightmare. This book outlines the romantic beginning, the methods a narcissist uses to set the game up and the confusion and bewilderment that sets in as my ideal love begins to change from Mr Nice to Mr Nasty. Witness my struggle to understand what I am dealing with as the Jeckyll/Hyde character that inevitably manifests within a narcissistic relationship, makes his appearance through real life examples.
Along with insights into the narcissistic personality, Planet Ben offers suggestions on how to avoid making the same mistakes that I did and outlines your own personality traits that may be keeping you trapped within a narcissist’s dangerous game.
End of the Fairytale - Book 2
Letting Go of the Narcissist
End of the Fairytale is for those women who have broken ties with a narcissist. Either he has been caught cheating, or she has finally said enough. Yet for whatever reason - his false promises, her belief that he can change - she is contemplating taking him back or has already done so. It outlines the far more extreme devalue and discard that occurs once you have exited and then chosen to re-enter a narcissist’s game. It is a day to day journal written over the second part of my relationship with Ben through to the ultimate end and shows my subsequent slide from a strong, confident woman to a traumatized emotional wreck; a person I could barely recognize. By the final final breakup, I was worn out emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. Yet I have nobody to blame but myself because I am the one who allowed him to suck, or hoover me back in.
The End of the Fairytale shows why there can be No Contact and no going back because a narcissist will never change. Instead this is about looking at where you can make changes in yourself to attract healthier relationships into your life.
Titanium - Book 3
Strength After a Narcissist
Breaking up with a narcissist for the final time is never easy. While you are left picking up the pieces he has generally sailed straight on to a new life, without once looking back. It's not easy when you realize that your entire relationship was built on a lie and that the man you loved wasn't genuine and it can bring up a tremendous amount of shock, betrayal, anger and grief.
Titanium covers the first two years after the death of the relationship where you are literally giving birth to a new you. This book explains how to handle life and love after a narcissist, the emotional ups and downs you are likely to experience and how to find ways to recover and move on., so that you may find peace and forgiveness.
It is written to give faith that no matter how hard it has been, there is a way through and out the other side of narcissistic abuse.